Red Light Heidi

I’m reading Shahida Arabi’s book, “Becoming the Narcissist’s Nightmare” and love her wisdom and insight on psychopathic personalities and how to deal with them. Her blog is focused on women who are the victims of abuse but both men and women who are victims of abuse resonate with her experience.

I agree with her message that you can grow and become so much more than what happened to you while you were in that bad relationship. The neuroscience principles in my book, “The Neuroscience of Dating,” are excellent ways to protect yourself. These principles involve screening a date’s level of brain integration. Her article on dating gives tips for protecting yourself and catching red flags:

https://selfcarehaven.wordpress.com/2014/08/29/dating-emotional-predators-signs-to-look-out-for/