Kink Resources: 50 Shades of Grey for Real

For the sake of adding more resources in the “kink fetish” catergory, I went looking on the web and found this: http://www.kinkacademy.com/   I looked for reviews on the site and found the following which seemed to imply it is a good website for information.  Let me know if you have either positive or negative experience with it. Reviews: Review of Kink Academy–One Opinion and More Reviews of Kink Academy here    Read More

Curious about sexual health?

Besides the podcasts mentioned in a former post, an introductory post on kink interests, and an overview of where to go online to get sexual health questions answered, another place to get your questions answered is “Club CalExotics.” Club CalExotics is an interactive, online community that is committed to providing information about sexual health and wellness.  It has interactive forums and discussion boards, informational videos,... Read More

Are You A Sexual “Pervert”?

A psychologist is interviewed about the variety of sexuality in human expression: http://www.sydneyoperahouse.com/videos/3690835678001-Festival-of-Dangerous-Ideas-2012-Jesse-Bering-Interview Minute 7:00 quote: “I do think if we are going to use a term like say ‘immoral’ it needs to be reserved to causing distress or harm on an actual subjectively experiencing organism, (e.g. human being or animal). I think that to refer to somebody... Read More

Normal vs Kinky photos of couples

One artist depicts the everyday then the kinky side of couples… http://www.featureshoot.com/2014/09/provocative-portrait-series-shows-everyday-people-living-out-their-after-hours-fantasies-nsfw/   These pictures demonstrate what I attempted to explain with words in the following post: http://redlightheidi.com/kink-friendly-resources/   In particular, I’d like to point out the part of the post where I normalize BDSM and explain... Read More

Kink-friendly Resources

BDSM glossary of terms: http://www.xeromag.com/fvbdglossary.html This website https://fetlife.com/ has been called the “facebook” of kinky people, but I do have to put a warning for anyone who visits the website that there is explicit content there. There are good introductory threads and groups for “newbies” on the site and it is a way to meet your local kink community but BE AWARE and use basic caution whenever meeting up,... Read More

Exploring Your Sexuality

Clarisse Thorn’s book, “the S & M Feminist,” is a great way to learn about feminism and S & M, (both are interesting topics that a sexually empowered female might want to know more about! The above link actually takes you to the review that I just wrote on the book, click on the picture icon of Clarisse’s book to the right to read excepts from the book.) Here is a great link to some basic resources if you are new and... Read More